I recently listened to a conversation between well-known and beloved Buddhist teachers Sharon Salzberg and Jack Kornfield. One of the things they talked about was the epidemic of loneliness, which has worsened during the pandemic, along with the importance of finding new ways to connect and cultivate community.
It reminded me of how connection was a central theme in the personal and leadership development retreats I facilitated. I remember leaders, across all organizations and levels of leadership, talking about feeling alone and isolated. They have gained much by sharing with others in similar situations.
At women’s retreats I often heard someone say, “I thought I was the only one who thought that way.” Participants often kept in touch with each other after the program was completed.
Retreats can be ideal spaces for bringing like-minded people together. And when a safe and courageous environment is created, the connections run deep.
I know the value of connecting with like-minded people in retreat environments where we share values and interests. I still maintain contact with fellow participants of Marshall Rosenberg’s Nonviolent communication intensive, about 15 years ago. And as a two-year immersive Growing in Wisdom program In short, I have new friends to walk with on an ongoing spiritual path. We have a shared interest in living out our final years with grace and wisdom.
Sometimes it’s a challenge to find like-minded friends, although many new book clubs and groups have sprung up in the years of the pandemic. About a year ago, I wrote about life-giving communities after my granddaughter Meghan and I discussed the value of creating or finding community. She talked about her Motherhood Community, and I know she still appreciates that growing group.
I’d love to hear from you about a retreat where you made long-lasting connections or a time you found or created community.
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The conversation between Sharon and Jack is so listenable:
Conversation between Sharon and Jack
I am so fortunate to have participated in a program with Marshall Rosenberg through the Center for Nonviolent Communication, it was indeed life changing, and I continue to use the theory and practice to this day:
Center for Nonviolent Communication
Growing in Wisdom involves two years of learning and discovery for those seeking spirituality for their wisdom years. I am grateful that I had the time and willingness to participate in this program that ends in June.
See what Meghan had to say about the value of her Motherhood Group. Talk about making a difference.
Life-giving communities
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